‘What have we gotten myself into?’ How a S’porean girl proposed to her boyfriend during the S’pore National Stadium

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‘What have we gotten myself into?’ How a S’porean girl proposed to her boyfriend during the S’pore National Stadium

Wong Xiao Yuan and Kenneth Chandran inform us the way they view the debate over gender norms swirling around them: simply background noise.

On Saturday, July 20, the majority of the fans going into the Singapore Sports Hub to look at the football match between Manchester United and Inter Milan had been most likely excited.

In comparison, 23-year-old Wong Xiao Yuan ended up being a bundle of nerves as she wandered in to the arena.

“I looked to their friend and said ‘Oh my god, just just just what did we get myself into?” she told Mothership.

The following minutes that are 50-odd Wong, a nurse by occupation, anxiously viewing the clock, counting along the minutes and moments to half-time.

Finding by themselves regarding the “kiss cam”

Once the break when you look at the match finally arrived, Wong’s now-fiancй Kenneth Joel Chandran, 30, pointed out that she ended up being acting a bit strange.

Digital digital digital Cameras in the arena were wandering the crowd that is 52,000-strong and an emcee was encouraging couples to be involved in the halftime entertainment — a “kiss cam” portion. Chandran thought this represented a fantastic time and energy to just simply take pictures, but Wong seemed reluctant.

Picture by Ng Kah Hwee

Chandran: “Everyone decided to go to grab meals and any. I was thinking which was a time that is great just simply take pictures, but she ignored me personally!”

Wong: “I said ‘what if the kiss cam comes? We must remain here!’”

Chandran: “Usually she’s the initial someone to desire to simply simply take pictures she didn’t would you like to. beside me but that time”

As expected, the kiss-cam did find its solution to the few. Perhaps perhaps maybe Not attempting to disappoint, the sporting couple duly obliged. Stated Chandran:

“ we was thinking the digital camera would proceed, nonetheless it didn’t. I did son’t understand and she ended up being getting my supply and asking us to operate, and I also had been saying ‘Why?’ After which whenever she ended up being standing here and I also seemed up and on them) behind her was the screen, that’s when I realised that something was wrong, because the kiss cam was still (.”

A stunt planned between Wong, Sports Hub, Int’l Champions Cup & production business

Given that Singapore Armed Forces regular endured up, Wong went the opposing way, dropping to at least one knee.

“Actually, i desired to get ready a script to inform him. Ahead of the half-time I became thinking inside my head; I became nevertheless rehearsing inside my head. Then again whenever I endured up I became the same as ‘oh my god, we entirely forgot exactly what i desired to state.’ I was like ‘umm will you marry me? so I just kneeled down and’”

It ended up that the entire thing had been prepared and coordinated by Wong, the Singapore Sports Hub, the Overseas Champions Cup, and a manufacturing business. The kiss cam portion was indeed a ruse to permit Wong to accomplish a magnificent proposal that is public her boyfriend of 2 yrs.

“I felt like I became in a bubble. Because really i desired to know what the emcee ended up being saying to make certain that I could be lead by the emcee, then again we completely didn’t hear anything more. I felt I could only see him like I was in a bubble and.

Then as he stated ‘of course’ I happened to be just like ‘oh my god’. He then said, ‘stand up, you ought to remain true now’. And I also ended up being saying ‘no gimme your hand (to put up the band)!’”

Jokingly warned him about proposing to him before

Conversing with the delighted few now, it is easy to understand that they’re nevertheless riding the post-engagement high.

Because they recount the storyline of this proposal, the set can’t assistance but shoot loving smiles at each and every other while giggling about Chandran’s confusion or Wong’s nerves.

“If you need me personally to be honest to you, I really didn’t have the intention (to propose quickly),” Chandran informs us.

“Because we had been telling her, ‘We’re likely to get hitched appropriate? Even if we ask you to answer, the clear answer is yes right?’

She did actually point out a times that are few ‘if you’re not planning to propose for me, I’m going to propose to you’. We thought she ended up being joking. But before long, getting to understand her, I was thinking it had been feasible. I thought there clearly was a small opportunity that she might do it.”

Help from friends and family members

Just how did Wong therefore pull this off confidently without misgivings from individuals around her?

As Chandran describes to us, it is in her character.

“She is definitely ready to do things, to offer, also to take to. She is thought by me family back ground does play a role. Her moms and dads will always be supportive and never actually limiting of her.”

“Since young, they will have constantly supported us, like whatever we do, when it comes to studies or perhaps in life. Like whatever we should just do they will state, ‘It’s okay, it is possible to go on and test it. In the event that you don’t want to buy, it is fine you can easily decide to try another thing.’”

But exactly how did they feel about Wong’s proposal especially?

“Actually my moms and dads had been really happy with me. They had been like, ‘Oh! Mummy can be so pleased with you!’ Then she began telling all her family and friends. if they saw the movie”

Friends are also actually supportive associated with few.

Wong defines exactly exactly exactly how into the lead as much as the proposal, support from her buddies had gotten her “pumped up to accomplish it”.

For Chandran, his or her own friends are split between being that is“genuinely happy him and dealing with surprise over Wong’s audacity.

“(a group of his buddies) are like ‘Oh, you have got this type of ballsy gf.’ We stated, ‘Yeah needless to say. She did most of the tough components!’ exactly exactly What did I Really Do? i simply stated yes.”

Gender equality notwithstanding, individuals are nevertheless really old-fashioned about proposing

Nonetheless, not every person has looked at the couple’s engagement approvingly, with footage associated with the proposal sparking conversation online over sex norms and exactly just what a lady should or must not do pertaining to getting involved.

Describing their astonishment in the response and comments that are negative have actually flooded social media marketing and discussion boards, Chandran stated:


“What caught me personally by shock had been that i might have believed that lots of younger individuals could be in preference of (the thought of sex equality while the breaking of sex stereotypes). But following this saga, actually perhaps perhaps not. You nevertheless genuinely have many people who will be conventional or have old-fashioned ideas.

We still acquire some feedback that say, ‘Eh some guy should really be doing this’, you realize? But once it comes down through the more youthful generation, or the more youthful individuals it took me personally by surprise. We hear a great deal about sex equality and exactly what perhaps maybe perhaps not, but yeah.”

Wong herself does not see her actions as an effort to champion a feminist agenda; it didn’t also occur to her that there were norms about whom should propose.

“I don’t think we am (actually into feminism). But i suppose the means we had been brought up was different,” she claims.

It proved to at first be a small amount of a distraction from just just what needs to have otherwise been a moment that is great Wong.

“I became form of amazed and a bit that is little. Since when used to do it i did son’t be prepared to have that sorts of attention. Despite the fact that my buddies and household supported me personally, i did son’t understand what other folks had been considering. When they stated such things as that I became a bit astonished. I did son’t expect it at all.”

“She simply wanted us to be happy”

Yet, Chandran is quick to dismiss the discussion online as “noise” from those who don’t understand the few.

“ we was thinking they concentrated a lot of on (sex problems). That wasn’t her agenda. Her agenda had been simply for me personally, she simply desired us to be pleased.”

So that as our conversation shifted from the internet negativity, it became apparent that this undoubtedly ended up being the full instance; laughter and smiles rapidly returning.

From the history of debate over whether or not it is right for a female to propose to a person, Wong and Chandran have been in their particular small bubble.

Exactly like into the moment of this proposition, they’ve were able to tune away most of the noise them happy around them, focusing solely on what makes.

Picture by Ng Kah Hwee

Top image that is left Ng Kah Hwee, right image due to Wong Xiao Yuan

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